1. dreamnote，樊胜美到底是可怜还是可悲呢？

文：蓝羽轩（ID：LLdreamnote） 图：来源网络

樊胜美是五美里面，最牵动人心的。

爸爸瘫痪在床，妈妈重男轻女一心偏向哥哥，哥哥嫂子大小事都找樊胜美。这一家人都是“吸血鬼”，父母和哥嫂都将责任推给了樊胜美，理直气壮的榨干她毫无愧疚。

樊胜美被压榨的喘不过气来，一次次无奈妥协，任他们宰割自己，不断地满足着父母的要求。

她挣脱不掉的，除了自己的“孝”，更有渴求父母认可的“痴”。

在樊胜美看来，原生家庭问题，只要有钱就可以迎刃而解；只有摆脱这样的家庭她才会有出路。她打从心里羡慕曲筱绡那样的人生。于是，凭借自己的姿色不断出入富豪圈子“掐尖儿”，希望籍此跨越阶层。

富豪不傻，这等套路早就看得通透。对于他们来讲，美丽只是一个“消耗品”，钱可以不断地购买新鲜的“美丽”。真的谈到婚姻层面，他们更在意婚姻的既得利益、双方软硬价值是否匹配。

樊胜美不明白的是，即使用名贵的衣服和化妆品包裹装扮起来“精英感”，也抵御不住她的假。心态、眼界、气度、学识，真实的富豪一眼看穿品质根本不是同一个阶层，她注定只能吸引到同层次的“屌丝”。

好比《小时代》里处处描绘着高端大气上档次，以渲染顾里等人的富豪身份。我一直觉得，这是“屌丝”视角下的富豪，或者说被“符号化”的富豪。普通人根本没有机会见识真正的富豪，所以很容易就轻信，因为它符合我们想象中的样子。

王柏川租宝马、买名牌、装精英，帅气阳光、又有旧日情，当他出现在樊胜美眼前的时候，似乎正符合她需要的样子。

她的美丽买不起通往上升阶层的门票，除了陪他们玩玩，遇到事真刀真枪时候，没有人能真正给她幸福。这个妄念一日不除，她就一日不得安生。

樊胜美原本以为遇见王柏川会有很多美梦般的未来。曲筱绡揭穿了王柏川的真实情况，对樊胜美来说，他是个“烂心大苹果”。

王柏川对樊胜美满满的爱意与迷恋，那是他年轻时得不到的女神啊。如今有机会，更是不遗余力的取悦樊胜美，用高浓度情感轰炸她，供她随意差遣。

王柏川对樊胜美的家庭情况知根知底，非但没有被吓跑，无论怎样折磨他都毫无退意、一往无前。如果不是因为这点硬伤，樊胜美可能轮不到他来追。

他的爱似乎很卑微，如履薄冰，战战兢兢。他觉得自己是一个神圣的勇士，可以拯救落难的公主。面对樊胜美的困境，几乎有求必应，似乎“拯救者”正是他生来的使命。这让樊胜美感觉到甜蜜，她实在是太累了，于是在这样的爱意里融化、休憩。

王柏川对樊胜美评价甚高，时刻表现出她无可取代，给了樊胜美无可匹敌的安全感。这段关系格局里，樊胜美有着绝对优越感。

恋爱了的樊胜美有着一般女人的小作，对王柏川需求很高，又充满矛盾。

当她有空，而王柏川要工作时，便发火抱怨：“为什么在我最需要的时候你总是不在”。当王柏川好不容易放假，提出想要陪她过二人世界时，她又逼王柏川放弃旅行，给曲筱绡报价工作。

这着实让王柏川摸不着头脑。

女人的心声是：我既需要你努力上进、赚钱养家，也同样需要你在我需要的时候陪伴我。

可是男人也很无奈：亲爱的，当我双手搬砖就无法抱你，抱着你就没法搬砖挣钱养活你。

我们衡量一个人是否爱另一个人，就看他能否舍得将他最稀缺的资源给你。王柏川钱不多，却舍得给樊胜美花，工作繁忙却舍得花时间陪伴她，可见他爱樊胜美之心至诚。

其实女人需要的，不过是男人的爱；而男人则需要理解。

反观小曲和嗲赵的相处，尽管双方都很忙，却又各自独立，有空的时候互相协商、互相体谅，皆大欢喜。

打从一开始，樊胜美就把王柏川当做“供养者”，一心指望通过他来改变自己的状况，注定了感情的格局。

樊胜美跟王柏川在一起，原本就不是很确定爱他；可是要分开，又没有更好的选择，舍不得。

这就是跟供养者在一起的感受。

就好比，你看中一款名牌包，可是钱不够买，你又非常想要，于是买了一个仿款的包包。刚背上开心许久，可是你心里也知道那是仿的，有那么一丝丝嫌弃，扔了又舍不得，毕竟也是花钱买的。你心里很清楚，这并不是你最想要的那个真名牌包包，可你现在也只能买得起仿包。

无力购买真名牌包，又不能真心喜欢仿品包。樊胜美既没有能力真正跨入富豪阶层的女友备选项里，又不甘心真正爱上王柏川。在这个夹缝里，她无法收获真实的爱，只能在其中摇摆。

姑娘啊，“你喜欢的”一定是价值高于你的，“喜欢你的”一定是价值低于你或者与你价值相当的；价值比你高的都看不上你，价值与你相当的你又看不上，这只能说明你对自己的价值过分高估。好在樊胜美算是清醒知道了，自己高攀不进富豪的圈子。

新公司里有个追求她的富豪，樊胜美拒绝了他。并非是没有诱惑，前面的经历都告诉她，并没有谁能够真正接纳她的原生家庭。弃掉王柏川，对她并没有胜算。

可以想见，一旦有一天，王柏川移情别恋，樊胜美的第一反应将不是伤心，而是愤怒：“他居然敢离开我？”然后自我怜悯：“我怎么这么可怜，连一个男人都留不住。”

这，才是毁灭樊胜美和王柏川关系的真正杀手。

供养者这个概念源于进化心理学，指在女性择偶时，潜意识会把男人分为两种。女人看中情人的是他良好的基因（外形、才华、相处体验），而看中供养者的是对方提供的养育价值（钱、地位、生活品质、被迁就）。

因此供养者是指在感情中，不断提供经济价值、提供后代繁衍的养育价值的付出者。

感情是相互的，当你对伴侣产生爱意的时候，眼里心里都是对方，给他的是情人待遇。当他遇到困难，你会倾尽全力去帮他；当他努力后即使结果不好也没有过多埋怨，皆因为爱。

当你把伴侣当做供养者，并给予供养者待遇，对对方的付出就会有期待。对方没有解决你的问题就会生气，做不好就落埋怨，没达到要求就是不上进。如同樊胜美对王柏川，即使他一心一意表忠心，也难免逐渐会累。

前期，王柏川心疼樊胜美为家里操劳，割破手指，满满的保护欲。渐渐地，当樊胜美遇到任何问题，都去找王柏川解决，将未来美好憧憬都寄希望于王柏川公司发家致富，一旦没做好就指责抱怨。樊胜美再次遇难的时候，那一刻，王柏川第一次开始想逃，他充当不了樊胜美的拯救者。

因此，王柏川不敢告知樊胜美零件没有通过质检的实情；也不敢直接面对樊胜美对自己躲避的质问；甚至不敢跟她沟通自己的感受，发泄在安迪身上。

跟樊胜美的相处越来越让王柏川觉得疲累，自己似乎成了樊胜美的人生“救火队员”，一旦“供养”不能持续提供，感情还会维持吗？

好的伴侣之间，靠的是彼此的爱来滋养，对彼此都是情人心态。

如果不能及时调整自己，持续用供养者心态对待伴侣，一旦伴侣被索取到疲惫，有朝一日，在一起的痛苦多过快乐，选择不再供养离开。那时候，产生一系列戒断反应、难受的将是你。

樊胜美的“贪心”很可怕，可怕到吞噬她原本以为的爱。

无法走心、无法平衡，就注定无法拥有真正的感情。

如果爱，处理好自己的问题，给伴侣情人待遇。

樊胜美仗着在跟王柏川恋爱关系里的优势，将原生家庭遇到的磨难，一股脑统统抛给王柏川解决；连同对未来生活的美好憧憬，全部筹码压在王柏川身上；全心全意的依赖、逼迫、控制着王柏川，开始了“亲手养成富豪苗子”之路。

我们仿佛看到原生家庭的轮回进一步重演：樊的父母过度依赖樊胜美，而樊胜美又将这个模式原原本本的复制、继承下来，让自己依赖王柏川，将自己的未来一并托付给他，捆绑在一起。

然而，两个人在一起，是交融，而非共生；是各自独立，在一起更好；是互相扶持，而非全心托付；是共同鼓励，而非一人全抗。

王柏川身上不但背负了樊胜美的未来，还背负了她背后的家庭。纵有回天之术，面对这么大的担子，也会想逃。

很多人会说，遇见这样的爹妈兄嫂，下狠心不理就行了啊。

能够说出这样话的原因是：有这样爹妈的人不是你。

当你至亲如此，但凡心有仁慈和期待，都无法做到狠绝。因为他们触及到你的疼，谁都无法容忍自己亲爹妈委屈可怜的样子。

人性最撑不住考验，但是人总是能在最疼的地方看见自己内心的突触。

原生家庭已经这么糟糕了，拿了一副烂牌，陷入死循环就没办法翻身了么？

对于樊胜美，破除这个死循环的方法：更加自主独立，划清界限，切断依赖，降低期待。

这一次樊胜美开窍了，跳槽到金融公司，帮人做理财。选对了一个上升期行业，做一个有发展的岗位。过去的她长时间对钱的算计使得她的思维过窄，已经无力去处理其他的事。现在有机会好好审视自己的职业，对于樊胜美来说是很不错的选择，帮助她更加独立自主。

像现在一样，狠下心与家里划清界限。划清父母、兄嫂的责任以及自己的责任，除了应尽的赡养父母责任，不去主动承担其余不属于她的责任。切断父母兄嫂对自己无度的依赖，并坚持把控财产定量供给。母亲一旦把生活费给兄嫂了，就不再补足；让母亲意识到意识到，兄嫂的人生需要自己负责。

对获得家里人赞赏降低期待。父母兄嫂年纪大了，又有这么多年根深蒂固的习惯，不要指望他们会改变很多。不抱着这种幻想，就会隔离很多伤害。这种长期形成的原生家庭历史遗留问题，也需要长期的抗战才行。

王柏川问安迪为何樊胜美会这样，安迪说：

“在那些没有信心靠自己的奋斗找到前途的人们当中，你很难找到独立的精神，和坚强的个性。”

樊胜美其实并没有她看起来那么强大，一直在强撑。

从一开始妄想遇见富豪解救她的困境，把希望寄托在外界；遇到困难就替自己委屈，脆弱不堪；到遇见王柏川，她好似看见救命的稻草，拼命的希望他拉自己上岸。

尽管樊胜美经济已独立，养活了父母兄嫂，可她的精神一直在渴望依赖。

她的内心有一个小女孩，一直被索取的很疲惫，太需要被爱被呵护了，而她能从王柏川那接收到的爱，就是帮她脱离困境。

好在，我们终会看到希望，她从新工作和小蚯蚓身上，找回了昔日的努力的劲头。

樊胜美的内心需要经历一次彻底的成长：把精神独立和个性坚强像铠甲一样，一件一件穿在身上。

想起《边城》有这样一段话：“不许哭，做一个大人，不管有什么事情都不许哭，要硬扎一些，结实一点，才配活到这块土地上！”

而这，正是我们面对困境的真实写照——咬紧牙关，扛过去。

没事的，扛过去，世界为你让路。

期待之后的樊胜美，能逐渐成长，同王柏川在这条路上突破重重考验，互相磨合成长，彼此携手走过一生。

【本文由蓝羽轩原创，转载请注明版权及出处】

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2. dream是什么意思？

最基本的句子Most Fundamental Sentences：

dream n. 梦；梦想；向往的事

☆ I never remember my dreams when I wake up.

我从来不能回忆起我做过的梦。【这是我多年想不通的问题】

☆ To spend vacations by the sea is my dream.

在海滨度假是我向往的事。

☆ I’ve always had a dream of owning my own business.

我一直梦想拥有自己的企业。

Kim’s Note: So many people who work in boring jobs have this dream. They long to own their own business and be their own boss.

很多做着让他们厌烦的工作的人都有这样的梦想。他们渴望拥有自己的事业，做自己的老板。

☆ I had a strange dream last night-- you and I were in some sort of tropical forest being chased by tigers.

我昨晚做了个奇怪的梦――你和我在某个热带森林里被老虎追。

【词性转换】

dream v. 做梦, 梦见, 梦想, 想到

☆ She was dreaming peacefully.

她正宁静地做着梦。

☆ Last night, I dreamed that a monster was chasing me. I was so scared and woke up screaming.

昨晚，我梦见有个怪兽追我，我非常害怕，尖叫着醒来。

☆ Did it storm last night, or did I dream it?

昨晚有暴风雨吗？还是我在做梦

☆ Did you say that you were going with me tonight or did I dream it（= am I wrong）?

你说过你今晚和我一起去，还是我弄错了？

最简单的“dream”用法：

☆ Good night – sweet dreams!

晚安――祝你做一个甜美的梦！

☆ Have nice dreams!

做个好梦！

最特别的用法

梦中情人，佳境，美境，特别令人满意、出色或美丽的人或物：

☆ Our new car runs like a dream.

我们的新车开起来好极了

☆ Our vacation was like a dream. We had perfect weather every day.

我们的假期棒极了，每天都有特别好的天气。

超级王牌句型一：dream of/about：

☆ I dreamed about my teacher last night.

昨天夜里我梦见我的老师了。

☆ I dreamed about my grandfather last night.

昨晚我梦见我爷爷了。

☆ When you are young you dream about all sorts of things.

人年轻的时候总会有各种各样美好的向往。

【疯狂联想】谁都不会例外，每个人的心中都有各种各样的梦。只要还有梦，人生就是美好的。

☆ I dream of becoming the best football player in China.

我梦想成为全城最好的足球队员。

☆ I dream of one day working for myself and not having a boss.

我梦想有一天为自己工作，不再有老板。

☆ The soldiers often dreamed about their family and friends at home.

士兵们经常梦见家乡的家人和朋友们。

☆ When I was little I used to dream about having the money to buy all the toys and candy that I wanted.

小时候我常常渴望能够有钱买所有我想要的糖果。

【疯狂联想】这是每一个小孩的梦想。

Kim’s Note: Dreams definitely change as we get older. I’m sure many people can remember a time when this was what they dreamed of.

随着人们长大，梦想当然也会改变。我相信很多人都会记得当年他们也有着这样的梦想。

☆ When I was young I dreamed of becoming a great spy. Now, I’m an FBI agent. I guess you could say that my dream came true.

我小时候就梦想着当个伟大的间谍，如今我是个 FBI特工。我想你可以说我的梦想成真了。

【疯狂联想】这样的经历可不是每个人都有的，但你也不妨做个这样的梦。

超级王牌句型二：It has long been one’s dream to do sth.

☆ It has long been her dream to marry Bill Gates.

嫁给比尔·盖茨是她长久以来的梦想。

☆ It has long been her dream to be an actress.

当演员是她长久以来的梦想。

☆ It had always been our dream to take the children to the Great Wall.

带孩子们去长城曾经一直是我们的理想。

超级王牌句型三：I never dreamed that…/of…

☆ I never dreamed that such a thing could happen to me!

我做梦也没想到这种事会发生在我身上！

【疯狂短评】最挑战的句子Most Challenging and Show-off Sentence。

☆ I never dreamed that such a thing could happen!

我从没想到这种事竟会发生!

☆ I never dreamed that I would see you again.

我从来没想到过我还会再见到你。

Kim’s Note: This is a classic, romantic, movie sentence. Long-lost lovers always use this sentence when they are reunited.

这是句经典、浪漫的电影台词。久别重逢的恋人们总是在见面的时候说这句话。

☆ I never dreamed that I could speak good English. Crazy English changed my life.

我从来没想过我能说好英语。疯狂英语改变了我的人生。

☆ A: I never dreamed of hurting you. I’m so sorry.

我从没想过伤害你。

【疯狂短评】A good way to apologize.道歉的好方式。

B: I never thought the man of my dreams could treat me so badly!

我从来没想过我的梦中情人会对我如此糟糕！

☆ A: Your son is a nightmare!

你儿子简直是个恶梦！

B: I never dreamed that he would behave so badly. I’m so embarrassed.

我做梦都没想到他会表现得如此恶劣。我很难堪。

【疯狂联想】A good way to make an excuse or to show understanding. For example, when parents talk to teachers, friends talk to each other about their husbands or boyfriends.

找借口或表示理解的好方式。比如说，当父母跟老师谈话时，朋友们彼此交谈关于他们的丈夫或男朋友时。

超级王牌句型四：of one’s dreams （= the best that you can imagine; sth. you always long for）

☆ I finally got the job of my dreams.

我终于得到了我梦寐以求的工作。

☆ Win the house of your dreams in our fantastic contest!

参加我们精彩的比赛，你会赢得梦想中的美宅！

☆ Build the life of your dreams with the help of Crazy English.

用疯狂英语帮助你建立梦想中的人生。

☆ I thought I married the man of my dreams, but he turned out to be a real nightmare! Now I dream of getting divorced as quickly as possible.

我以为我嫁给了我的梦中情人，但却发现他是个真正的恶梦！现在我常梦想着尽快离婚。

超级王牌句型五：with a dream of…

☆ A: Those foreign experts have come to China with a dream of helping Chinese to speak better English.

那些外国专家怀着帮中国人把英语说得更好的梦想来到中国。

B: We all share the same dream.

我们有着共同的梦想。

☆ A: With dreams of improving their lives and finding their fortunes, thousands of farmers flooded into Beijing.

怀着改善生活发财致富的梦想，成千上万的农民涌进了北京。

B: Beijing is a city of dreams.

北京是个梦之都。

超级王牌句型六：put an end to one’s dream of…

☆ This would put an end to their dream of world domination.

这将结束他们主宰世界的梦想。

【疯狂联想】这个句子适用于美国和前苏联。

☆ The accident put an end to my dream of becoming an Olympic athlete.

那次事故结束了我成为一名奥运选手的梦想。

超级王牌句型七：a dream come true

☆ Receiving this award is just like a dream come true.

得到这个奖项真像是梦想成真。

☆ Getting into Beijing University is my dream come true.

去北京大学读书让我的梦想成真。

超级王牌句型八：realize/fulfil one’s dream

☆ I don’t have to go to America to realize my dreams. I can make my dreams come true here in China.

我不需要去美国实现我的梦想，我在中国就可以让我的梦想成真。

☆ You need a college degree to fulfil your dream of becoming a teacher.

你需要先得到一个大学学位才能实现你做老师的梦想。

超级王牌句型九：beyond one’s wildest dreams

☆ He succeeded beyond his wildest dreams.

他万万没想到他会成功。

☆ My boss offered me a salary beyond my wildest dreams.

我老板给我提供了我万万梦想不到的高薪。

超级王牌句型十：must have dreamed/have been dreaming

最有用的句子Most Useful Sentence：

☆ I never said that! You must have been dreaming.

我没说过那话！你一定是在做梦。

【疯狂联想】A good way to avoid responsibility. 逃避责任的好方式。

☆ I certainly didn't promise you the money; you must have dreamed it.

我肯定没有答应过给你那笔钱，准是你自己在胡思乱想。

【疯狂联想】A good way to deny something. 否认某件事的好方式。

☆ A: I thought I’d bought some condoms but it seems I haven’t — I must have dreamed it.

我以为自己已经买了避孕套，现在看来还没有买，我准是在做梦。

B: Then if you think you’re having sex with me, you’re dreaming!

如果你以为你要跟我做爱，那你是在做梦！

【公益广告】防止艾滋病，请用避孕套！

最有力的句子Most Powerful Sentences：

☆ Stop dreaming and get to work!

别做白日梦了，去工作！

☆ You’re dreaming if you think you can go to the United States.

如果你以为自己能去美国，那真是白日做梦。

☆ A: When I’ve made lots of money, I’ll spend six months of the year on vacation.

等我挣了大钱，我会花半年时间来度假。

B: Dream on, Dave!

大卫，那是不可能的！

☆ A: I think I can learn to speak good English in one month.

我觉得我可以在一个月里学会说一口流利的英语。

B: In your dreams.

做梦吧。

☆ A: I think I can make a lot of money in this business.

我觉得可以在这门生意里赚很多钱。

B: You must be dreaming.

你一定是在做梦吧。

一个典型的故事 A Typical Success Story

When I was a little boy, I always dreamed of becoming a professional athlete. Michael Jordan was my idol. But unfortunately I became an accountant, and I got married to another accountant. It’s such a boring job. I just didn’t have that talent and strong will that it takes to become a professional athlete. I hope my son will realize my dream. Who knows? Maybe I’d better let him chase his own dream.

Anyway, it’s so important to have a dream in life. Now my dream is for my son to be successful.

【李阳疯狂英语“三最”训练记录为：16秒】

【李阳疯狂英语“一口气”训练记录为： 1口气】

我小时候总是梦想要做一名职业运动员。迈克尔·乔丹是我的偶像。不幸的是我成为一名会计，我还娶了另一个会计。这工作真是无聊透顶。我就是没有成为一名职业运动员的天份，也没有那种强烈的意志。我希望我儿子能实现我的梦想。但谁知道呢？也许我该让他追寻自己的梦想。

不管怎么说，人生必须要有梦想。现在我的梦想是让我的儿子成功。

和“dream”有关的词汇Words Associated with Dream：

Daydream （做白日梦）means to think pleasant thoughts when you’re awake and when you should be paying attention to something else.

Daydream指在醒着的时候或者在应该注意其他事情的时候想愉快的事情。

☆ I couldn’t pay attention during the meeting. I was too busy daydreaming about my vacation.

开会的时候我无法集中思想，我正忙于做着去度假的白日梦呢。

Nightmare （梦魇，噩梦；使人极其痛苦的事情或经历）means a dream arousing feelings of intense fear, horror, and distress or an event or experience that is intensely distressing.

Nightmare指引起极度的害怕、恐惧或悲痛的梦，或者是让人非常痛苦的事件或经历。

☆ He woke up from a nightmare, trembling with fear.

他从噩梦中惊醒，因为恐惧而吓得发抖。

☆ Years after my terrible car accident I still have nightmares about it.

那次可怕的汽车事故后过了很多年，我还是会做恶梦。

最后一步：疯狂练嘴

☆ She thinks he is in love with her, but it’s only a dream.

她以为他爱上了她，但那只是个幻想而已。

☆ I keep having the same dream about trying to get across a deep river.

我老做同样的梦，梦见我费力地想过一条很深的河。

【梦的解析】This dream probably means you are having serious problems during the day. The deep water stands for deep trouble in your daily life.

这个梦很可能表明你在白天有着严重的问题。深水表示你日常生活中的大麻烦。另外“deep”和“river”是练习长短音的最佳组合。

☆ Space travel used to be just a dream.

太空旅行过去只是个梦想而已。

☆ It has long been a dream of mine to retire and live by the sea.

退休后去海边生活是我的夙愿。

☆ Her dream of success kept her from quitting.

她渴望成功的梦想使她不愿辞职。

☆ Becoming the President is the dream of my lifetime.

成为总统是我毕生的愿望。

☆ John lives in a dream.

约翰生活在梦幻中。

☆ The boy had dreams of being a hero.

这孩子梦想当英雄。

☆ Is life really an empty dream?

人生果真空如梦吗？

☆ The first few days of their romance had been like a dream. But the dream didn’t last.

他们开始几天的浪漫温馨曾是那么的完美，但这美梦却没能持续多久。

☆ He let me drive his new car last night — it drives like a dream.

昨晚他让我开他的新车，真是棒极了。

☆ I will never stop pursuing my dreams.

我永远都不会停止追求我的梦想。

☆ The American dream means anyone can be successful if they work hard.

“美国梦”是指任何人只要努力工作都能成功。

☆ Man should always have big dreams.

人应该有远大的理想。

☆ My childhood dream was to be a policeman.

我孩提时的梦想是当一名警察。

☆ I can’t sleep because I have bad dreams every night.

我睡不好因为我每晚都做恶梦。

☆ The child woke up in the middle of a bad dream.

孩子被恶梦惊醒。

☆ You crushed my dreams with your cruel remark.

你残忍的话粉碎了我的梦想。

☆ Don’t rob me of my dreams, they’re all I have left right now.

不要抢走我的梦，它们是我现在仅有的东西了。

☆ Don’t spoil my dreams with all your negative talk.

不要用你负面的谈话破坏我的梦想。

☆ I ruined my father’s dreams of having a doctor for a son when I dropped out of college.

我退出了大学，这粉碎了我父亲希望有个儿子当一名医生的梦想。

☆ When you woke me, you interrupted a wonderful dream.

你把我叫醒了，打断了我的好梦。

☆ It’s a terrible thing to lose your dreams.

失去梦想是很可怕的事。

☆ You can say what you want, but you can’t stop me from dreaming.

你爱怎么说就怎么说，但你不能让我停止梦想。

3. amber是男名还是女名？

女名。

Amber n. 安布尔（女子名） 短语 Amber Road 琥珀之路 ; 安珀路 Amber Ann 安心亚 Amber Tamblyn 爱波·塔布琳 ; 儿艾斯丽 ; 安柏谭柏 ; 他女女艾斯丽 amber opal琥珀蛋白石 ; 琥珀卵白石 AMBER NOTE 琥珀香调 Amber Dream 琥珀之梦 ; 梦幻琥珀 ; 琥珀 ; 详细翻译

4. 放牛班的春天中十句经典语录？

1、The childlike voice of the Scorpio is the closest to God.

天籁一般的童声，是最接近上帝的存在。

2、You can't say，there are things worth trying.Never give up，always have hope in front of waiting.

世事不能说死，有些事情总值得尝试。永不轻言放弃，前方总有希望在等待。

3、Every heart need love， need to be gentle， generous， need to understand. Every child comes from the pure innocence of place， never should be the very cherish the treasure.

每一颗心都需要爱，需要温柔，需要宽容，需要理解。每一个孩子都来自纯净无邪的地方，永远都应该是人间万分疼惜的珍宝。

4、Never give up， always have hope in front waiting for.

永不放弃，总有希望在前面等待。

5、At this moment, I feel a bit of joy and optimism. I want to call the world, but who will listen? No one knows my existence.

在此刻我感到一阵喜悦和乐观，我想向全世界呼叫，但有谁会听呢？没人知道我的存在。

6、Matthew, an unsuccessful musician, an unsuccessful superintendent.

马修，一个不成功的音乐家，一个不成功的学监。

7、Everything is possible, never say forever.

凡事都有可能，永远别说永远。

8、The happiness of childhood, fleeting, brilliant golden light, shines at the end of the path.

童年的幸福，转瞬即逝，绚丽的金光，照耀在小路的尽头

5. TT和DN的区别？

TT和DN是指管道和管道连接部件的规格和尺寸标准，其主要区别如下：

1. TT是管道的规格标准，通常用于表示管道的直径大小和壁厚，如TT219x6表示该管道直径为219mm，壁厚为6mm。

2. DN是管道连接部件的规格标准，通常用于表示管道连接部件的流通孔径大小，如DN50表示该管道连接部件的流通孔径大小为50mm。

3. TT和DN所表示的尺寸单位不同，TT表示的是管道的直径和壁厚，单位是毫米或英寸，而DN表示的是流通孔径的大小，单位是毫米。

4. TT和DN常用于不同的场合，TT一般用于管道系统的设计和施工中，用于确定管道的直径和壁厚等参数；而DN主要用于管道连接部件的设计和选择中，用于确定管道连接部件的流通孔径大小。

总之，TT和DN虽然都与管道有关，但它们所表示的标准规格和尺寸不同，用途和应用场合也不同。在实际操作中，需要根据管道系统和管道连接部件的具体需求选择合适的TT和DN标准。

6. 同学走了送别的英文句子？

贺卡贺言 - 表示一般的祝愿

Hope you have lots of fun.希望你欢乐无比。

Hope for the best.祝你一切顺利！

Get your desire.祝如愿以偿。

Take good care of yourself.多多保重。

Good luck to you!祝你好运！

Good luck for your future!祝你今后一切顺利！

Good luck with you!好运伴你！

I wish you a happy life.祝你生活幸福！

Warmly greeting to you!真诚地祝福你！

All the best!万事如意！

You have our good wishes.我们为你祝贺。

May good luck wait upon you.好运在等你。

Enjoy yourself.祝你过得快活。

Holiday Greetings!节日好！

Have a good time!愿你过得愉快！

I hope you have a good voyage.祝你一路顺风。

Have a nice trip.旅行愉快！

Wishing you a pleasant journey.祝你旅途愉快！

I hope you are making big progress in your studies.祝你学习取得很大进步。

Wishing you all the luck in the world.祝你好运俱来。

Every success with you!祝你事事成功！

Hope things go all right with you!祝你万事如意！

Wish you the best of health and success!祝你身体健康，事业成功！

I’m most anxious for you to success.我非常希望你成功。

Wishing you success in your new career!祝你在新的事业上取得成功。

I hope everything goes well.希望你事事顺意。

May peace and happiness be with you.愿平安和幸福伴随着你。

The best of everything to you.祝你玩得开心。

Greetings!祝贺你！

Miss you怀念你！

Wishing you happiness.祝你幸福。

Best wishes.致以最好的祝福。

Congratulations!祝贺你！

Hoping you have a good holiday!希望你过个愉快的假日。

Best wishes for passing the examination!预祝你考试通过。

贺卡贺言 - 慰问用语

We have just heard with profound sorrow the sad news.惊闻噩耗，我们无比悲伤。

Your sympathy has brought us great comfort.你的慰问给出我带来了莫大的安慰。

Your sympathy and kindness will always be remembered.你的慰问和关心，我将永铭在心。

With many, many thanks for all your heartfelt sympathy.对你发自内心的同情，致以万分感谢。

I want you to know how much I sympathize with you and your family.谨向你和你的家人表示最深切的慰问。

How deeply we feel for you in your sorrow.在你非伤的时刻，我们对你深表同情。

With thanks from the family to tell you that your kind expression of sympathy is deeply appreciated.

我们全家对你的诚挚慰问深表谢意。

I can’t tell you how sorry I am.我无法表达我难过的心情。

There are no words that can be a comfort to you now.现在没有什么语言能给你带来安慰。blue

贺卡贺言 - 致谢用语

At the outset, I want to thank you for your kindness to me and for your compliments.

首先，我要感谢您对我的友爱和问候。

Your kindness means so much.你的关心铭记在心。

Your thoughtfulness has given me great joy.你的无微不至的关怀给了我很大的欣慰。

It is generous of you to show me so much consideration.承蒙你对我如此关心。

Believe me, I am truly grateful for your good understanding.对你们的理解，我确实真诚地表示感谢。

It is at time like this that one really appreciates the kindness of a friend.

只有在这样的时刻，一个人才会真正领会到朋友的。

I’m really indebted to you.我非常感谢你。

I am greatly indebted to you for the trouble you have gone.你为我的事不辞辛劳，我感谢不尽。

It is generous of you to take so much interest in my work.承蒙你对我的工作如此操心。

I realize that the task took a lot of your precious time.我知道你为这事花了大量宝贵的时间。

We were delighted to receive your gifts.我们高兴地收到了你的礼物。

Expected gifts are a pleasure to receive, but unexpected remembrances are an even greater joy.

盼望中的礼物固然可喜，而意外的礼物更使人喜出望外。

A thousand thanks for your frequent letter of encouraging advice.万分感谢你经常来信给我以鼓励和忠告。

It was good of you to send us an announcement of your marriage.

收到你们寄来的婚丧嫁娶礼喜帖，感谢你们的盛意。

This is to thank you again for your wonderful hospitality and to tell you how much I enjoyed seeing you again.

再次感谢你的盛情款待，非常希望能再见你。

It’s a pleasure to know special people like you who bring so much pleasure with things that they do.

很高兴认识你这样一位以诚待人的朋友。

Your thoughtfulness is very much appreciated非常感谢你无微不至的关怀。

Thank you very much for your warm letter.感谢你热情洋溢的来信。

Many thanks for remembering our anniversary and for your very kind remarks.

承蒙你能记得我们的结婚周年，并赐以美好的祝辞。非常感谢！

Your letter of congratulations gives me a great deal of pleasure.你的贺信带给我莫大的欢乐。

Your note of congratulations is deeply appreciated.你的贺信使我非常感激。

Thank you for your generous spirit of cooperation.感谢你的慷慨合作精神。

Thank you for doing me a real favour.感谢你实实在在地帮了我的忙。

You couldn’t have given me anything that I would enjoy more.再没有什么比你的礼物更让我喜欢。

I am grateful for all your past kindness.多蒙关照，万分感激。

I don’t know how to thank you enough for your photo album.你送我相册，我真不知怎样感谢你才好。

贺卡贺言 - 祝贺成功

You have our best wishes for even greater success in all that you undertake.

我们祝你在今后的事业中取得更大的成就。

I wish you every success at your new post.祝你在新的工作岗位上一切顺利。

I’d like to present this little gift as a token of appreciation for all that you have done.

送上一份薄礼，以表示对你所作努力的谢意。

I’d like to offer my congratulations on your success.谨对你的成功表示祝贺。

May I wish you every success in your career.祝你事业成功。

Have a productive day.祝你有一天事业大成。

I congratulate you on your success.祝你成功。

Your teacher is the first to congratulate you on your excellent research.

你的老师第一个为你的出色研究向你表示祝贺。

Congratulations on you success and best wishes always!祝贺你的成功，并致永久的最良好的祝愿。

Congratulations on winning the football game.为你们赢得这场足球赛表示祝贺。

Warm congratulations on successful experiment.热诚地祝贺实验成功。

Congratulations on you new achievement.对你所取得的新成就表示衷心的祝贺。

Allow me to send my warm congratulations, on achieving a triumph.

请允许我对你获得的胜表示热烈祝贺。

It’s a pleasure to know that you have reached the goal you set for yourself.

得知你实现了预定的目标，极为高兴。

I’d like to take the opportunity to express my congratulations on your scoring the triumph.

我想藉此机会向你所取得的这个胜利表示祝贺。

Let me offer my enthusiastic congratulations upon finishing the task.让我对你完成这项任务表示热烈的祝贺。

The talent of success is nothing more than doing what you can do well and doing well whatever you do. Congratulations on you success!

成功的天才不外乎你能做好的一切和做好你所做的一切。祝贺你取得成功！

You’re worthy of success. To wish you every happiness through the year ahead and bright prospects.

你的成功当之无愧。祝你来日幸福无穷，鹏程万里。

It’s glad to know that you have completed the dream of a lifetime. All the best.

非常高兴得知你实现了一生的理想。祝你一切顺利！

My hat’s off to you.向你致敬！

Warmest congratulations on your appointment as managing director.热烈祝贺你就任董事长。

It is with great pleasure that we send our congratulations and best wishes on the occasion of your new appointment.

在你就任新职之际，我们怀着极大的喜悦向你祝贺，并致以最良好的祝愿。

I trust that this appointment will give you even greater scope for both service to your profession and personal achievement. Please accept

my heartiest congratulations and best wishes for the future.

我相信此次荣升对你的业务与个人业绩，都有更大的发展机会。衷心祝贺，并对你的将来表示最良好的祝愿。

I’m glad that your outstanding work is being recognized and I offer my sincere congratulations.

你的出色工作得到了肯定，使我十分高兴，谨此表示衷心的祝贺。

Delighted to hear that you were given a promotion.听说你晋升了，非常高兴。

Congratulations on your latest promotion. I believe that you’ll make good in your new job.

恭喜你最近的升迁，我相信你定能胜任新职。

The promotion means more work and more pay. God luck to you!

晋升意味着更多的工作，更多的报酬。祝你好运。

May I express best wishes for your continued success as president of your company.

让我表示良好的祝愿，祝你在任公司总经理期间继续取得更大的成功。

The recognition you have obtained is well deserved.你得到赏识是当之无愧的。

It is great to hear about your recent promotion. I hope you’ll find happiness in this new post.

听说你最近得到升迁，真是棒极了。我希望你在新的岗位上工作愉快。

You have our hest wishes for even greater success in all that you undertake.

我们祝你在今后的事业中取得更大的成就。

May fortune smile upon you and favour you with many blessings.幸福，前程远大。

May the years ahead fulfill all your hopes and dreams.愿你在今后的岁月里能实现你的一切希望和理想。

The recognition you have received is well deserved.众望所归，受之无愧。

I admire your ingenuity and perseverance.我钦佩你的独创性和毅力。

It’s wonderful to know that you have completed the dream of a lifetime.

非常高兴地得悉你已实现了一生的理想。

I’m basking in the reflected glory that I gather from knowing you. Congratulations on your success.

认识你不胜荣幸。祝你成功。

贺卡贺言 - 祝贺婚姻

Every happiness on your engagement!祝贺你们订婚之喜！

May engagement days be wonderful and together may you see all your hopes and all your dreams become reality.

订婚的良辰美景令人难以忘怀，愿你们美梦成真，心想事成。

May your engagement bring a beautiful new meaning to love.你俩的订婚给爱情带来美丽的新意。

I heard that you and Don become engaged last night. You two are a perfect match. Congratulations

欣闻你和唐昨晚订婚。你俩真是天生一对。谨此祝福！

We all rejoice with you on the occasion of your engagement and wish you both a lifetime of happiness.

在你们订婚的大喜日子里，我们全体和你们一起共享欢乐，祝你们白头偕老，幸福美好。

I’m so excited to hear of your engagement to Mary. I wish you ever increasing happiness.

非常高兴地获悉你和小姐订婚的喜讯，祝你们幸福与日俱增。

We were delighted to hear about your engagement to Lee Fang. We wish you and your groom a long and happy marriage life.

听到你和李方订婚的消息，我们非常高兴。我们祝你和你的新郎婚姻幸福美满。

Hearty congratulations on your engagement. Hoping you will have nothing but joy and happiness in your life together.

衷心祝贺你们订婚之喜，祝你们在共同的生活中幸福快乐。

Best wishes to a wonderful pair for love and joy and happiness to share.

良好的祝愿献给天生的一对，愿你们在爱情、欢乐和幸福中同醉。

May you always stay as much in love in the future as you are today.

愿你们在未来的岁月里，永远都像今天一样，深深相爱。

I wish you happiness in marriage.祝你婚姻幸福。

Both of you suit each other perfectly and will surely have a very happy marriage life.

你俩完美匹配，你们婚后的生活一定美满幸福。

Congratulations on your recent marriage.恭贺新婚大吉！

May you two always be in love! May happiness increase with age.愿你俩，祝你俩幸福与年俱增。

May your marriage be the beginning of a new period of domestic happiness.

愿你们的婚礼是新的家庭幸福的开始。

As your married life starts, let me send my congratulations to you.在你俩新婚之际，请接受我对你们的祝贺。

May every happiness be yours on this wedding.值此婚礼佳期，祝你幸福无比。

Hearty congratulations on our wedding day.衷心恭贺新婚之喜！

Every good wish on your marriage.谨贺你们缔结良缘。

I believe that your marriage will be a source of blessing to you both.我相信你们的结合是你俩的幸福之源。

I’m pleased that you married each other. May the future hold only best for you this world can give.

你们的结合使我高兴，祝你们未来的生活拥有世界上最美好的一切。

I congratulate you all the more on your intellectual choice of a good groom.

我特别祝贺你聪明地选了一位好新郎。

Hoping everything goes well with marriage life.祝你们婚后生活万事如意。

As you begin to live your married life together, may you be blessed with love for all the years ahead.

值你们开始婚姻生活之际，祝愿你们永远相亲相爱。

It’s known that love is a dream shared by two. Wishing you a world of happiness and love.

众所周知，爱是两人同床共梦，祝你们爱河无边，福海无际。

I offer your marriage my earnest congratulations.我虔诚祝贺你们的婚礼。

贺卡贺言 - 祝贺健康

I wish you a speedy recovery.祝你早日康复。

The best of health.祝你健康。

I do hope you will soon get well again.我真诚希望你早日康复。

Health is the road to happiness. Get better soon.健康是幸福之道。祝早日康复。

Wishing you a quick return to good health.愿你尽快恢复健康！

There’s not a day that goes by without my praying for you.没有一天我不曾为你祈祷。

Thinking about you and sending this warm get-well greeting your way to hope you’ll be feeling much better and more like yourself every day.

思念你，送上这份温馨的祝愿。愿你时时都有好转，健康日日增强。

A get-well prayer for you.为你的康复祈祷。

Hoping you’re feeling better every day and will soon be well to stay.

愿你一天比一天好转，早日痊愈，永保健康。

It won’t be long till when you’ll find you’re feeling well and strong and on your feet again.

不久你便会感到好转，体力恢复，健康如常。

It’s hoped that very soon you’re completely feeling good again.希望你不久就完全康复。

We’re sure it won’t be long before you’re back on your feet again.我们确信你的身体很快便会复原。

With best wishes for your quick and complete return to health.衷心地祝你早日痊愈，完全康复。

Hoping a few days will restore your health.希望你不日就能恢复健康。

We’re waiting for your return.我们都期盼你病愈归来。

May the year of 2005 find all your family in the best health and spirits.

祝2005年合家身体健康，精神愉快。

贺卡贺言 - 祝贺生日

Many happy returns of the day.祝你生日快乐多多！

On your Birthday!祝你生日快乐！

On your happy day!祝你生日快乐！

For You. And Your Happy Day!祝贺你，祝你生日快乐！

With best wishes for a happy birthday!真诚地祝贺你生日快乐！

Specially for you and on your Day!特此祝贺你的生日！

I congratulate you on your Birthday!祝贺你生日快乐！

For a Special Day.祝你生日快乐无比！

Have a Nice Day.生日美好！

It’s Your Birthday!生日快乐！

Best wish for you and Happy Birthday! Sweet Dreamland.生日快乐，愿你有一个甜蜜的梦境。

Specially For You!特此致贺！

Wishing you a wonderful birthday!祝你度过一个奇异美妙的生日！

May you find a lot of fun when your birthday is here.值你生日来临之际，愿你欢快无比。

Hope the surprising day can bring you all the joy.祝愿这惊喜的一天带给你所有欢乐！

A wish for your glad day filled surprises!祝愿你们生日充满愉快。

May each birthday be perfect for you!愿你的每个生日都完满如意！

Wishing you warm days full of cheer!祝你在温馨的日子里充满着欢乐！

There’s a wish for joys that never end on your birthday.祝你生日欢乐无穷！

May you love a long and joyful life!祝您长寿康乐！

Hoping your life would be brighter as the birthday comes.值你生日来临，愿你的生活更加光彩。

To wish you endless happiness upon your having reached your thirtieth.

在你30岁生日来临之日，祝你永远幸福。

I’d like to take your birthday’s chance to congratulate you with all my heart.

我想借你生日的机会向你致以衷心的祝贺。

Today’s your birthday. Allow me to congratulate you sincerely.

今天是你的生日。请允许我向你致以诚挚的祝贺。

Wishing you peace and happiness on this special day.祝你生日平安、幸福。

With my congratulations and good wishes on your birthday.谨向你致以生日的美好祝贺。

Today’s a unusual day which belongs to you. Affectionate birthday greetings.

今天是属于你不平常的一天，致以亲切的生日祝贺。

Hoping that your birthday will be joyful.祝愿你生日愉快。

May you have many, many happy birthdays, and always keep your charm.愿你生日快快乐乐，魅力永驻。

I congratulate you on the happy return of your birthday!祝你生日快乐、长寿！

I send you my love and warm wishes for this and every day.

谨向你的生日和你的每一天，献上我的爱心和祝福。

Birthday may come, and may go. But you still seem to be young in spirit and heart with each birthday!

生日来了又去。可是随着一个又一个的生日，你的精神和心灵依然年轻！

Wish you all happiness, health and prosperity with many returns of the day!

祝你生日快乐，永远健康，事业兴旺！

A very, very happy birthday and many, many more of them to come!福如东海，寿比南山！

Many, many returns of this happy day to you!祝你生日快乐，寿比南山！

May all the dreams come true in the future. May each day be as happy as your birthday.

愿你的梦想成真。愿你每天都像欢度生日。

I’m hoping that the nicest things in life will come especially to you.

我希望生活中最美好的东西都将专门为你而来。

You’re trying to make this birthday the happiest one. Enjoy the great day!

你正把今年的生日变成最快乐的日子。欢庆这不寻常的一天吧！

It is to be wished that days haven’t changed our friendship. Have a happy birthday!

随着岁月流逝，我们的友谊依旧。祝君生日快乐！

You’re thought of very often. How I wish for a pair of wings to fly to you on your birthday!

我常常想你。在你的生日我真想插翅飞到你身旁！

We all join in best wishes for your very happy birthday. Please accept this gift. It’s a token of our friendship.

同贺生日快乐。请收下这象征我们友谊的礼物。

Happy birthday to an attractive, intellectual and sophisticated person.

祝你这位秀丽、聪颖和端庄的美人生日快乐！

Please accept my gift with my love and warm wishes for this special day.

为了这不寻常的一天，请接受我的礼物，连同我的爱心和温馨的祝愿。

Thinking of you on your birthday for the thoughtfulness you’ve shown and fondly hoping that the happiness you’ve given will be returned to you.在您的生日感谢您给我的体贴，我盼望用您给我的幸福回报。

When I think about you, Dad, I think of your smile, of the times when you have been there to talk for a while. Happy birthday!

爸爸，每当想到您，我便想到您的微笑，想到了你和我闲聊的时光。祝您生日快乐！

Please accept my best gift. This comes with deep thought of you to wish you Happy Birthday!

请接受我最珍贵的礼物。它表示我对您深深的思念。祝愿您生日快乐！

Dad, today is your birthday full of special happiness for you in every way.

爸，今天是您的生日，愿您幸福快乐！

I’d like to say that in all the world there’s no one I’d rather call my dad. When it comes to making birthday for a great father, only the very best of birthday wishes will do. Happy Birthday!

我要说全世界我只对您一个人叫爸爸。只有在伟大的父亲做生日的时刻才对您说：生日快乐！

Only wishes made of special love will do for a dad who is wonderful in every way as you.

真挚特别的爱献给您这位完美无缺的爸爸。

You’re wished the very best today and every day. Happy Birthday. Happiness Always!

祝您永远像今天这样美好！祝您生日快乐直到永远！

贺卡贺言 - 祝贺圣诞

With all good wishes for a bright and happy Christmas Season.祝贺圣诞节愉快美好！

May the joy and warmth of Christmas fill your home with happiness.祝你全家圣诞节欢乐温馨，幸福美好。

Wishing you peace, happiness and the true spirit of Christmas!祝愿你享有圣诞的平安、幸福和真谛！

May peace and love be your gift at Christmas and always!献上祥和与爱心，在圣诞以至永远。

May the blessing of Christmas be with you today and always!愿圣诞的好运伴你一生！

Hope your Christmas season will be filled with joy and cheer.祝你圣诞节充满愉快和欢乐。

With kind thoughts at Christmas and best wishes for you.献上圣诞佳节的亲切思念，祝你美好幸福。

With every good wish for Christmas.祝圣诞节万事如意。

Wishing you all the blessings of a beautiful Christmas season.愿你享有圣诞佳节的一切美满幸福。

May you have the best Christmas!愿你度过一个最美好的圣诞！

A wish for a sincerely merry Christmas!祝圣诞节快乐无比！

Merry Christmas to you and yours!祝你和家人！

Have a Christmas full of happy surprises!愿你圣诞节美好愉悦！

To wish you a lot of fun of the Christmas season!祝圣诞节无比欢乐！

Wishing you every happiness when Christmas comes.圣诞节来临之际，祝你事事顺意。

Christmas greetings and best wishes!恭贺圣诞节并致以良好祝愿！

I’d like to send you this card to make your Christmas happy and pleasant.赠此贺卡，祝你圣诞节更幸福愉快。

Wishing you a beautiful Christmas filled with surprises!愿你有一个充满喜悦和美好的圣诞节。

Hope your Christmas will be filled with joy and cheer.祝你圣诞节充满愉悦和欢乐。

Wishing you a very special Christmas.祝你过一个别有

7. 给些好听的歌撒？

A love theme

you gotta be me

alice

angel

back to december

Beautiful Eyes

because of you

born this way

you & i

boys and girls

can you feel the love tonight

Complicated

domino

price tag

dream on

eyes open

firework

Hot N' Cold

i kissed a girl

i'm with you

if i were a boy

note to God

pyramid

one day

laseslight

wide wake

Blow

Tik tok

We are one

Long live

Safe&sound

Our song

Isn't she lovely

That should be me

When you believe

Good bye(卫兰）

In love again(卫兰)

One sweet day

You are beautiful

Dying in the sun

Come in with the rain

Don't you wanna stay

Everything in the world

Goodbye(Avril lavigne)

I'll be waiting

If this was a movie

Jar of love。